Though a newbie...here's another aspect.
Personally, I'm more interested on what's "inside" the woman (no snickering now....)
I liken a woman to a Christmas gift. Sure, the present looks real pretty in the morning, wrapped neatly in shiny paper and a big bow to top everything off. But the first thing you do is take everything off the exterior of the gift because you want to see what's inside...to see the true gift.
Call me old fashioned...but I'd just as soon have a nice quiet evening at home, curled up on the couch (with company of the female persuasion) and watching a good movie, as I would going out and getting all liquored up and having to redecorate the bathroom after spending too much time there, trying to sell Ralph Nader a Buick or two...maybe three...hmmm.